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10 Ways to Create Your Dream Life

Updated: Mar 13, 2022

Create your dream life? Yes, it’s possible. Everyone starts out with the dream of living the rockstar lifestyle. Unlimited money, freedom to do what you want, a soulmate for keeps, creativity and an abundance of joy. Yeah baby!

Unfortunately, most of us end up unfulfilled in the daily grind, with the type of crappy life we wanted to avoid.

10 Ways to Create Your Dream Life:

So, how do you create your dream life? It’s possible to turn life around and start living on your own terms. Use these strategies to make the most of your time and create your dream life:

View challenges as opportunities

You’re more creative when your attention is focused. Challenges are great opportunities to take your life to the next level; to upgrade your knowledge and skills. When the shit hits the fan, recognize that you’re being called upon to learn what you never knew you were capable of.

Be nice

Each person you meet can do something for you. It might be teaching you something important, introducing you to the right person, or giving you your dream job. Who knows? Treat everyone with kindness and respect and your life will be enriched.

Follow the Pareto Principle

Everyone thinks they don’t have enough time in the day. It’s simply not true. Most people simply don’t spend their time on the right things. It’s a safe bet that 80% of your time is largely wasted. Focus your energy on the 20% that matters the most. Be aware of how you’re spending your time. And remember time is the only thing you can’t make more of.

Find a mentor

Think about the lifestyle you want to live and find someone that’s already living it. Ask for their advice. Avoid asking people who can’t offer concrete help. It doesn’t make sense to take advice from someone who hasn’t achieved what you want to accomplish.

Have goals

Your focus, time, and energy need a direction. Goals provide that direction. You might be smart, capable, and charming, but if you set sail without knowing where you’re going, you could up anywhere. Set a few goals and create your destination.

Focus on the present

Worry and regret live in the future and the past. Keep your mind focused on the present and you can avoid both. Cultivate mindfulness with activities like meditation and yoga. Do what you can with what you have in the now.

Avoid worrying about the opinions of others

While it might be a hard pill to swallow, a lot of people won’t want you to succeed. Especially the ‘frenemies.’ They’ll feel threatened by your success. Get used to the idea and don’t concern yourself with what they think of you. Instead simply try to be the best version of yourself – for you.

Be biased toward action

There are plenty of smart people that struggle to manage their lives. If you’re predisposed toward thinking rather than taking action, life will roll right over you. Spend a little time making a good decision, then get your butt into action.


You’re more likeable and happier when you smile. Try smiling everywhere you go for a week and notice the difference. It will fool your brain into thinking you’re feeling the happy vibe. That means it will pump out more of the happy chemicals that will keep you motivated and positive.

Choose experiences over possessions

The western world is far too focused on houses, cars, status symbols and other indicators of wealth. Your life will be richer and more amazing if you focus on having incredible experiences and being creative.

Don’t Wait Any Longer!

It’s the perfect time to make a few changes and create your dream life. Maybe your life has been pretty uneventful and hum-drum to this point. That doesn’t matter. All that matters is what you choose to do going forward. Create an amazing life for yourself and have the adventure of a lifetime. Who cares if you have to start small? Just do it. List everything you want to achieve and move towards it. Now.

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